by Astarin ShadowPrince » March 31st, 2008, 6:22 am
For 5 years, I was abused sexually, physically, and emotionally by my wife. Instead of reporting these things, I hoped that things would go back to the way they were the first 2 years of our marriage. We used to go out to eat, party, and invite people to our house. My wife then made friends who abused perscription drugs, and then began abusing them herself. She then offered a friend half of my life insurance policy to cause an accident that would potentially kill me. The result of this accident I lost the use of my left arm and developed arthritis in my right arm.
I fell into a deep depression. Several times I attempted to stand up to her, and was beaten, raped, or just threatened as a result. She abused my children and threatened to kill them if I reported her abuse to anybody. The whole time all I wanted was for her to get help and love me again. I finally gave up and told her I was leaving and divorcing her. She beat me, raped me, and went to police blaming injuries caused by her drug dealer on me. She lied in court to put me in jail, then she obtained a protection order against me with the same lies. While I was in jail, she took my disability checks and used them on dating sites, at nail salons, and possibly to buy more drugs with substantial cash withdrawls from my account. She is now attempting to use the same lies to prevent me from getting my physical property or seeing my children.
I will be filing for divorce and for custody of my children. I am afraid even with the witnesses of her abusing me and my children that the court system will continue to fail me. I would like to as for some help. I want my story to get out into the public eye. I would like referenced to lawfirms and organizations who would be willing to help protect myself and men who are in similar situations. Please copy and paste this, or link it to other forums and newgroups. Email ashadowprince (at) yahoo (dot) com for support, questions, debates, etc.
Victimization is not isolated only to women. Men can be victimized too, and disabled men are exceptionally prone to it.
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